Chicago Couple Cancels Mexico Wedding Amid Cartel Violence, Finds New Venue at Home
CHICAGO, Ill. — Kaitlin Bucaro and Robbie Morris had long envisioned exchanging vows in Guadalajara, Mexico, surrounded by friends and family in a destination wedding that was months in the making. But just days before their February 28 ceremony, the couple was forced to cancel their plans amid a surge of cartel violence that has gripped the region following the killing of the notorious cartel leader Nemesio Oseguera, known as “El Mencho.”
The couple’s decision came as the Mexican government issued warnings about the deteriorating security situation, which has caused widespread disruption and fear among residents and tourists alike. The chaos in Guadalajara, a city once celebrated for its vibrant culture and tourism, has been thrust into the spotlight as violent clashes and arson have erupted, forcing many travelers to reconsider their plans.
Determined not to let the violence derail their wedding day, Bucaro and Morris scrambled to find a new venue on short notice. With less than a week to secure a location, DJ, and florist, the couple reached out to local businesses in Chicago, hoping for a solution.
That’s when Nicholas Cuda, managing partner of The Alston, a well-known restaurant in Chicago, stepped forward. “I said, you know, I’m going to see what I can do to help,” Cuda told Fox32 Chicago. The Alston quickly offered its space to host the wedding reception, accommodating approximately 150 guests originally planning to attend the ceremony in Mexico.
“Marriage is a unique thing,” Cuda said. “When we heard their story, it was important to us to help make their day special despite the circumstances.”
The couple’s pivot reflects broader travel disruptions caused by cartel violence in Mexico, which have led to canceled flights, lockdowns, and increased advisories from the U.S. Department of State. The State Department’s travel advisories have urged Americans to exercise increased caution in several Mexican states due to crime and kidnapping risks, particularly in areas affected by drug cartel conflicts like Jalisco, where Guadalajara is located.
According to the U.S. Department of State, the security situation remains volatile, with ongoing clashes between rival cartels and law enforcement. These developments have led to a surge in emergency responses, including efforts by the Federal Bureau of Investigation and local Mexican authorities to stabilize the region.
The couple’s story highlights the ripple effects of cartel violence on tourism and personal plans. Many travelers have reported cancellations and rerouted trips, with some Americans stranded or forced to evacuate popular destinations. The U.S. government has coordinated with Mexican officials to ensure the safety of its citizens abroad, emphasizing the importance of registering travel plans with the Smart Traveler Enrollment Program (STEP).
Despite the abrupt change, Bucaro and Morris remain optimistic. Their wedding at The Alston will proceed with the same joy and celebration they had envisioned, albeit closer to home. Their experience underscores the resilience and adaptability of couples facing unforeseen challenges in an increasingly unpredictable world.
As Mexico continues to grapple with cartel-related violence, stories like this serve as a reminder of the human impact behind headlines and the importance of community support in times of crisis.

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