Colleen Reed Opens Up About Split From Matt Bolton, Citing Desire for Genuine Happiness
LOS ANGELES, Calif. — Colleen Reed, known for her appearance on the popular Netflix series “Love Is Blind,” has publicly shared the reasons behind her split from Matt Bolton, her husband of nearly four years. The couple, who announced their separation in May 2025, had previously kept the details of their breakup private. Reed recently spoke candidly on the “What’s the Reality?” podcast, explaining that her pursuit of “complete and utter happiness” was a driving factor in ending the marriage.
Reed revealed that their decision to marry was impulsive, describing how they “flipped a coin” the night before their wedding to decide whether to go through with it. She characterized their relationship as a series of “high highs” and “low lows,” lacking the consistent harmony she desired. “I would say we were always up and down since day one, and that’s the one thing that ultimately led to our breakup,” she said.
Central to the dissolution of their marriage were differing values and priorities. Colleen emphasized her deep appreciation for community, friendships, family, and quality time—elements she considers her “number one love language.” She lamented that Matt did not share this priority, recalling how she often wished he would simply spend quiet time with her and their friends. “I just wanted him to hang out with me, and we just wouldn’t hang out,” she explained. “Just come hang out at a picnic table with a few of our friends, and let’s be with a community. I have just always valued community, and I would just say that probably wasn’t a priority of his at the time.”
Reed also expressed frustration with the dynamic of frequently initiating plans herself. “I want to be courted!” she said. “As a lover girl, I love a yearner. Yearn for me, and that was definitely lacking, especially toward the end of our relationship.”
While trust issues surfaced occasionally, Reed clarified that they were not a primary reason for the split. She suggested that Matt may have had unresolved personal challenges that affected their relationship but chose not to delve deeply into those matters out of respect for their shared history and her lingering feelings.
Another significant factor in Reed’s decision was her desire to start a family. Having recently turned 30, she expressed urgency about having children, stating, “I want four kids. I want a big family. But I will not have kids with you until I know I am absolutely in love with you. I’ll freeze my eggs, I’ll be okay.” She acknowledged that their differing outlooks on this issue contributed to the breakup.
The couple officially separated in November 2024 but waited several months before publicly announcing their split, choosing to share the news only after they were no longer living together. Reed described the day she moved out as “probably the hardest day of my life because it was so, so sad,” but affirmed that ending the marriage was the right decision for her happiness.
Colleen Reed and Matt Bolton’s story highlights the complexities of relationships formed in the public eye, especially those that began under unconventional circumstances, such as the social experiment portrayed in “Love Is Blind.” Their experience underscores the importance of shared values and emotional consistency in sustaining long-term partnerships.
For those navigating similar challenges, resources from the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services offer guidance on relationship health and emotional well-being. Additionally, the Family and Youth Services Bureau provides support programs for families and individuals undergoing transitions. Those interested in the dynamics of televised relationships can explore research and commentary available through the Federal Communications Commission, which regulates broadcast content.
Colleen Reed’s openness about her journey serves as a reminder that even in the glare of public attention, the pursuit of personal happiness and fulfillment remains paramount.
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